Thirty-Three.

Today is Josh Kelley’s birthday!  We slept in this morning which translates to 7am VS 5:29…yes, I like to set my alarm for odd times…don’t judge.  I finally rolled out of bed and made sure everyone else was up and moving.  Then the 6 other humans in our house made our way to the bedroom where we sang our hearts out and showered him with cards, a Taco Bell gift card and a new coffee maker.  He has been wanting an actual fully working coffee maker and Black & Decker made it happen.  Raise the roof.  We wrapped it up and Josh and the big kids headed out the door for school & work.

The littles and I met him later for lunch.  We ate at the farmer’s market down the street from his work.  You guys, I had the best ice cream I have ever put in my mouth…like I thought about it all day.  Over and over again I thought to myself, “That was literally the best ice cream I’ve ever had.  Like ever.”  I was baffled.  If you have a Jeni’s Icecream in your area, please for the love of the human race, unless you are allergic, try the salted peanut butter with chocolate flakes.  I almost died from the deliciousness.

The afternoon held swimming for Hudson and Solomon had a baseball game tonight.  Not exactly a birthday blow out, but there were zero complaints because Josh Kelley rolls with it.  He is the sane to my insanity.  We could not ask for a better, more hard working leader for our little tribe.  He puts up with our crazy so so well.  He needs a vacation 🙂

He loves Jesus.  He makes me laugh.  The hardest.  He is humble.  And kind.  Literally my most favorite human in the world.  My best friend.  And his heart is my favorite thing about him.  Marriage is hard work, but my oh my, it is some good hard work and well worth it.

We’ve spent 17 birthdays together.  Wild right?!?!?  Josh Kelley I think year number 33 is going to be grand…just like you!  Love you!!!

Dear Hudson

So I woke up with that fiery feeling still ablaze.  Last night’s post, yep, them there were fighting words.  For reals.  Here’s the post which was planned for yesterday, but yesterday went crazily awry.  God has a serious sense of humor.  I dig that about Him.  Anyways.  Huddy’s birthday was Sunday.  It was grand and fun.  Enjoy!

Dear Hudson,

You have been anticipating your 5th birthday since almost way back at your 4th.  It’s just how you roll.  I prayed you wouldn’t suffer from the dreaded birthday hangover.  You know..there’s the holiday hangover too…especially after Christmas…when you’ve anticipated something so much and when it’s over you’re slightly depressed it’s ended.  This could have easily been you, but I would like to think this was your best birthday so far.

I have never met a kid like you.  You are quirky and you’re own individual self.  You let nothing stop you from being you.  You are kind and sensitive.  You are brave and courageous and yet, lean towards the side of caution.  You have the most tender heart towards others and it shows as you take your roll as son, brother, cousin and friend seriously.  You are compassionate and empathetic…almost to a fault.  I love this about you.  I love you are this fierce, wild little boy, whose heart leans and bends and breaks for others.  Your compassion…your ability to put yourself in someone else’s shoes will take you far.

You love weapons.  Any kind.  Any type.  Does not matter.  This is extremely entertaining to your dad and I.  The fact that we bought you a 360 page book on the visual history of arms and armor and the fact that you loved it…not just liked, but loved it, was the absolute best.  We adore watching you passionately form new loves and interests.  I love how God designed you.

You love Jesus.  You really and truly love Jesus.  You have asked Him into your heart several times now…quite possibly every time you have gone #2 in our bathroom.  And you know what, I think He’s there Hudson.  You pray the most sincerest prayers.  You mean every single word.  You even prayed yourself out of your egg allergy.  You believed in God’s power, you petitioned Him to take it away and He did just that.  You have the faith God speaks and teaches about in the Bible.  You soak Him up.

You are an amazing brother.  You have your little brother tendencies which drive Harper crazy, but you are really a fantastic little and big brother.  You humor Harper and encourage her.  You take time to get down on Amon’s level and I’ve never heard anyone speak as good toddler/Amon talk as you do.  And Solomon adores you.  Your dad and I have the sheer privilege to watch you and Sol grow and change and the bond and friendship you share is unmatched. Even though you are only 4 months older than him, you are a great big brother to Sol.  He looks up to you and you have always been his biggest fan.  Since the beginning, there has been no rivalry because you Hudson, chose to cheer Sol on.  Even when Sol figured out how to do something before you, you were always thrilled for him.  It makes me all mushy and teary.  I promise to always pray for your brotherhood with Solomon…and Amon and Harper.  Always.

You make me a better mom.  You teach me new things all the time.  God reveals himself to me through you.  I hope one day you fully understand how absolutely in love I am with you and your heart.  You amaze me.  You make me smile.  You make me laugh.  You drive me wild.  You make me feel good.  You make others feel good.  I think your spiritual gift will be encouraging others or teaching them how to load a gun.  Time will only tell.

Thank you for being you Huddy.  You are my most favorite 5-year-old boy.  I can only say this for the next 4 months, but I will tell you often in that time.  God has blessed us far beyond our imaginations with you.  I never could have dreamed the little boy you have become.  I am anticipating the man God will form you into.  He will use you to change the world and I will be cheering you on every step of the way.

Happy 5th Birthday Hudson.  I love you tons.

Love, Mom

Josh Kelley & Amon

This weekend we celebrated both Amon’s 1 year heart day and Josh’s birthday.  There were strings of hearts and happy birthday banners.  There were heart cookies and mini red velvet cheesecakes with homemade whipped cream.  There were sweets for breakfast and Mexican food for lunch and more sweets after that.  There was time together with our tribe of 6.  There were movie nights and Josh getting to sleep in and do yard work…it’s his thing…he likes it…I don’t get it.  There were cards and presents, one of which was a Millennium Falcon tshirt Huddy and Sol picked out for him.  Yes.  It was a really sweet time.

Last year we celebrated Josh’s birthday in the hospital.  Amon had his open heart surgery the previous day before, so there actually wasn’t much celebrating going on.  More like anxious, nervous, on pins and needles…a semi crying irrational mess.  That sounds like the ideal birthday right?  Yep.  I felt terrible…it was the combination of the worst/best/most memorable birthday ever.  So this year was nice.  A drastic change from last year and it made me very weepy with how far we’ve come…how far God has brought Amon and our family…how He has worked and moved and just amazed us.  I am very grateful for Josh Kelley and all these little humans we have been entrusted with…and this weekend we were all thinking heavily about Amon and his heart and the crazy good guy Josh Kelley is.

Laura Kelley Fun Fact #13  Since the time when we first met as kids I always referred to Josh as Josh Kelley.  All his baseball friends called him JK and it’s so fun to hear those same guys still call him that even today.  I love it.  It contains memories which I am so in love with.  For some reason, I just always referred to him as Josh Kelley.  When we started dating at 15, slowly but surely the “Josh Kelley” went to just “Josh” except for every now and then and when I write, it always come out as Josh Kelley again and it makes me smile because the boy who comes to mind when I say those two names together is the guy I fell crazy in love with.  He’s much radder now though.  I love him more than I ever thought I could.  I even like him too…most of the time.

This gig as wife and mom I have the privilege of doing is not always easy, but it is full to the brim of love and laughter and grace and mercy and forgiveness.  It can be madness.  There are days when I want to run far, far away, but these people…these faces…Oh my word.  This weekend He reminded me of how crazy, insanely blessed I am…that we are…to have each other and to be loved by our Savior.  It’s completely overwhelming in the most stellar way.

Happy Birthday Josh Kelley and Happy Heart Day Amon!  You two, are quite the pair!

Insta Friday

I’m on a roll people…this is like 5…maybe just 4 Insta Fridays in a roll.  A culmination of my Instagram pics over the last week.  I’m pitterpatterart if you want to follow along.

Silly faces are always the best faces.

The wee Kelleys are totally old people when it comes to their cereal selections…Life, Cheerios and Raisin Bran.  At least the Cheerios were honey nut.  I’m sure their fiber intake is superb.

I’ve been having to go through old childhood items.  Can I get a what, what for my hippie turtle candle.  Josh Kelley and I will probably light this baby tonight along with some incense and then turn on our black light and enjoy our Pink Floyd poster.  Memories.

Amon’s most favorite spot.  Too fun pulling in the driveway and seeing his sweet little face.

Speaking of sweet face…there are no words…I’m done.  He wins.

I’ve been working on getting my creative area cleaned up and organized.  This is the aftermath of last Saturday’s sale.

My lunch date…every day.

If I had known just how happy and how clean her room would stay now…I would have bought her a desk a long time ago.  A desk…who knew?

After bath Amon is the more serious and refined Amon.

“Make Your Own Salad” night is maybe my most favorite meal to make.  Instructions:  Tear up lettuce and put toppings such as croutons, carrots, cheese, broccoli, chicken, eggs, etc in different bowls.  Assemble your own.  The end.

Someone asked about how I keep up with my running so precisely.  I have two ways…I have a gps watch that keeps it for me or I use the Map My Run app a reader recommended to me.  Love both of them.

I picked up two new running partners this week.  They’re pretty fun…I just may keep them.

Happiness is Chuck E Cheese for your birthday.

Happiness is Chuck E Cheese for your birthday…with Amon.

BTW…we use online coupons at CC to keep the cost low.  Also each kid is signed up for birthday jazz, so they get a coupon for like 20 tokens free for their birthday.

Sol asked for Transformer cupcakes for his birthday.  I really thought he was going to pick cookies and I had this grand idea for Transformer cookies and then he went with cupcakes.  So what’s a mom in a pinch supposed to do?  How about buy a $1.99 pack of Transformer pencil sharpeners, top those cupcakes off and call it a day.  And Sol is thrilled.

I’ve never told him before, but the #1 reason I married Josh Kelley was for his mad birthday door skillz.  He had me at “I’m a pretty good drawer.”

Our tradition is they can have anything their little birthday heart desires for breakfast on their big day.  Sol requested ice cream sundaes.  He’s my kind of man.

A little McDonalds for lunch with my guys.  Amon decided to rock a collar today for Sol’s birthday.

And this may be my all time favorite Instagram picture ever.  It is just sooooooo them.  And I love that today has been one filled with so much fun and adoration for Solomon.  He is truly a special and crazy amazing little boy.  We are incredibly blessed to be his Mom & Dad.

Have a great weekend.  Happy Friday.

Welcome To The 21st Century

Hope you all had a good weekend.  Mine was nice…still busy, but really great.  I’m excited for life to slow down a bit this week.  Last week was cray…for lack of better slang words.  I need a down week.

My new current liquid obsession is a cranberry sprite from Sonic.  Oh goodness.  There is just something about this sweet little concoction that can make my day so much better.

My friend Ashley mailed me a giant box filled with 30 different presents.  Harper and I laid in bed and opened all of them.  Too fun.  Love you Ashley.

This was my favorite thing Ashley sent.  Forget the Buffalo Wild Wings card or the Sonic card or super cute shirt.  The Lassy Legs beat them all.  And you’re probably wondering, “So does it work?”  Well, yep it does.  It especially works if you’re goal is smooth, hairless legs that you get by rubbing your skin raw with fine grit sandpaper.  Like my legs were all dusty afterwards just like sanding down a piece of lumber accompanied by lots of little, what felt like, carpet burns.

I have been wanting Noonday & Matilda Jane’s sweet collaboration of a bag called The Weekender for a while now.  Courtney totally rocked it out and got me one of my birthday.  It made carrying all my packages to the post office way cooler.  Love it Courtney.


I heart the self service machine at our post office.  I use it 99.9% of the time.  And mainly when the post office is closed…like Sundays.  Happy mail is on its way.

I have lots of “thank you” notes to write for my fantastic birthday.  I’m always looking for some good thank you notes and I loved these at Target.  Hand writing a thank you note is something I will never let technology take over.  Never. #dyingart

Josh got me an iPhone for my birthday.  Now you may recall I just recently entered the world of texting.  So a smart phone was waaaay out of my league, but apparently Josh thought I was ready.  I have to admit I am quite over the moon about my leap into technology, but wow! it is confusing.  I did get on Instagram…come find me {pitterpatterart} and help me out.  I seriously need an iPhone class.  I’m such a nerd.  Do you have any tips or tricks?  Any must have apps?  Anything to help an un-tech savvy crafty sister out?  I have downloaded the Joanns, Hobby Lobby and Michaels apps.

I think Ashley may be getting tired of Face Timing with me to tell me how to do something.  She just is a wealth of somewhat helpful iPhone knowledge…or I just like to see her face because we live too far apart.

I did start looking for an iPhone case and when I did some googling I ran across THIS POST on how to design your own iPhone case.  Super easy.  Super fun.  And just like that I headed over to Uncommon, uploaded my picture and ordered my iPhone case…and took my first ever Instagram photo.  Yah!

Since that first picture, I have sort of been an Instagram fool.  Way too many pictures.  It probably doesn’t help that my camera is still broken.  I just have so many questions…like…when you take a picture with Instagram does it have to upload to your feed every single time and how can I get my Instagram pictures in my regular photo stream on my phone?  It’s all just so confusing.

I really want to master these iPhone shannanigans.  I want to use it with confidence and without confusion and a million bajillion questions.  I really want to be hip and cool and “down with it”…is “down with it” even hip and/or cool verbage…see what I’m working with here.  I want to be cool enough to wear these jeans.  It would appear that cool ladies who know how to use their smart phones would wear these.  I want to be them.

Please help!

Happy Monday!


Friday

I don’t normally post on the weekends, but I wanted to wrap up my 30th birthday week…30 Acts of Kindness.  Yesterday was my official birthday and it was great. I felt extremely loved and encouraged and that was really nice.  Thank you so very very much.

And here’s how my last six acts of kindness played out.

#1  Birthday bag & cupcake drop.  My friend Eric has the same birthday as me and well, that makes us practically twins.  Eric loves bacon and I wanted to surprise him with a little birthday and bacon love.  I bought some fun birthday items like a birthday banner, hats and blowers, plus an awesome $1.50 game of Pin-The-Tail-On-The-Donkey and paired them with some Maple Bacon Cupcakes.  Let me take a moment and say how super amazingly delicious these cupcakes were.  They were awesome…bacon and all.  Give them a shot…you really will not be disappointed.  And happy birthday Eric…glad we’re twins.

#2  Muffins to pediatrician’s office.  We love our pediatrician Dr. Eidson.  He’s really just the best.  And he loved my mom.  He always brings up sweet stories about her that make me cry, but the good kind of cry…the remembering and sweetness.  We see him quite often…we actually had back-to-back appointments this week and yesterday Huddy had his 4 year check up.

Dr. Eidson and all of the staff are always just too, too good to us and as a mom, I cannot say enough how much I appreciate their love and kindness and patience and hard work.  Instead of muffins I ended up making Nutella Rolls with Cream Cheese Frosting.  Why don’t you, right now, stop whatever you are doing and go make these.  That’s about all I can really say.  Superbness.

#3  Cupcakes to the bank.  My Mom loved her job and she was incredible at it.  Mom’s job at Pinnacle Bank was not just a job, but great friendships and family.  Her co-workers have loved on our family like crazy and it has just been humbling and made us feel so very cared for and we truly appreciate it.  I wanted to bless them with some yummy chocolate cupcakes with cream cheese frosting.  Just a little something to say “thank you.”

#4  Buy someone’s lunch.  Since it was my birthday, the boys and I headed to Chick-fil-a after Huddy’s check-up.  We drove through and ordered some lunch and then paid for the car’s order behind us.  A very simple act that could change someone’s day.

#5  Popcorn, candy and movie rental bucket.  We love a good movie night and decided to share this with another family.  I fixed a little box with some microwave popcorn, some popcorn mix, giant movie theater candy and a Redbox gift certificate.  Did you know you could buy Redbox gift certificates…you just print it off or email it to the recipient.  I drove around looking for a family checking out a movie together and found one outside a McDonalds.  It took some persuading…no, I did not want money for the bucket…no, I did not want them to sign up for something…no, there was not a catch, but finally after some explaining the mom took the bucket and said thank you.

And #6  Surprise art drop.  At Harper’s school fundraiser a sweet friend really went after my silent auction art basket pretty hard.  She ended up not getting the basket and made a comment about one particular piece.

I made this canvas up and did a surprise art drop yesterday.  Who wouldn’t want to come out to your car and find something fun on top of it?

And that wrapped up my birthday week.  It turned out to be a much better week than I had anticipated and I credit God for every bit of joy and love this week encompassed.  I am just your everyday person…a very flawed individual and sinner…the deal breaker is Jesus.  Because of the love of Jesus I have been transformed into something special…something extraordinary…something created for a purpose.  Just like all His people.  That is something definitely to celebrate and share with others.

Happy Saturday!

Thursday

Thursday’s kindness is done.  Let’s discuss.

#1  Overpay for a Contributor newspaper.  We love the Contributor and the opportunity and hope it is giving homeless people here in Nashville.  It really is amazing.  Eileen is one of my favorite sellers, so it was an honor to see her smiling face yesterday morning and pay a little extra for the new November issue.

#2  Card for the hubs.  It is so easy to think about others and forget to invest in the ones you are closest to.  I am completely guilty of this.  I want Josh to always know that no matter what, he is the most important person to me.  I want to build him up and make him feel loved and for him to know just how proud I am to be his wife.  He helped make my birthday week happen…especially since Amon could only do car rides and not go into any of the places I went.  Josh Kelley is quite the catch and I never want to take him for granted.  He is truly a blessing.

#3  Tip for drive-thru worker.  I needed coffee and some doughnut holes for #4, so I went through Kristy Kreme.  The lady who was preparing all the coffees and doughnut holes was so helpful and nice.  After getting my order I gave her a little tip and thanked her for the kind help.

#4  Coffee for people waiting on the bus.  I was a bit disappointed to only find a few people waiting for the bus.  Only one person wanted coffee…the doughnut holes were much more popular.

This is what I had left, so Amon and I spent the next 30 minutes driving around finding random people who were out and about to enjoy the rest of the coffee and doughnuts.

#5  Care packs for the homeless.  I bought up some pretty standard items and then let the kids pack some gallon zip-lock bags for some local homeless people we see pretty regularly.  We want the wee Kelleys to never take for granted the blessings which are abundant in our lives and we want them to always help when they can.  When we pass things out or buy Contributor papers, we always talk about treating others as we would want to be treated.  I love that they know Ms. Eileen and Mr. Taiwan and several other Contributor sellers by name and wave and chat with them.  I want them to always see people as just that…people…who God created and loves dearly.

#6  Donations for the Crisis Pregnancy Center.  What a wonderful ministry and the center in Hendersonville is simply incredible.  They do so much good, good work.  We were happy to tote in some baby supplies.

And right after this picture, I dropped my camera on the sidewalk.  It was bad…like real bad.  I may have cried.  I’m a little emotional.  So there’s no telling what today’s pictures will look like since the camera I will be using is about 10 years old.

But today is my big day.  Today is my birthday and I am finishing out my birthday week with my last 6 kindness acts.  I’m ready the spread the birthday love.

These two guys will be perfect companions for the day + another little wee boy who I am quite smitten with.

Oh and Amon had another doctors appointment yesterday.  It went great.  Only a few more weeks of being home bound and then we can show him off to the world.  November 26th cannot get here quick enough…I want everyone to know Amon like we do and to experience his infectious little personality.  He is such a crazy cool baby.

We also started our thankful leaves yesterday.  Each day of November the kids decide on something they are thankful for and up goes our leaf.  I love that the very first thing they chose to be thankful for was Amon.  This kid is going to be ruined…we’re all head over heals for him.

So here’s to a great start to my thirties.  I’m pretty stoked to see what God has planned.  If I had to guess, I would say my thirties are going to be pretty crazy cool.  Have a great weekend.

Happy Friday.

Wednesday

Yesterday is complete and it was quite a full day with Halloween and all.  Here’s our re-cap:

#1  Sticky notes on bathroom mirrors.  I had to get candy for trick-or-treaters, so my sticky notes ended up in the Target ladies room.  I was busted by a fellow lady bathroom user and she didn’t say a word…avoided all eye contact, with me and the hot pink sticky notes with messages like “Lookin’ good hot stuff”…I think I made her uncomfortable…her mirror even already had messages on it.  I’ve found that most people are very skeptical of kindness, but I’m here to prove them wrong.  Kindess can be rad and pure.

#2  Leave change at a laundromat.  There’s a laundromat just right down from our house, so this was super easy to do.  Some Happy Washing & Drying messages with some quarters and crossing my fingers someone decided to do laundry on Halloween.  The place was completely empty when I was there…like not one person…I could have possibly stolen a washer and/or dryer.

#3  Handmade cards to a nursing home.  The kids colored cute little cards and I wrote little messages on the inside.  When we were almost to the nursing home I noticed one of Harper’s cards…it had bunting…she’s a girl after my own heart for sure.

#4  Art giveaway.  This was for you guys yesterday.  And the winner of yesterday’s giveaway is Crystal.  Crystal check your email for a message from me.  Super congrats!  Thank you all for entering…your comments are always too fun to read.

#5  Mustache on unsuspecting car.  So a friend gave me a giant mustache magnet…it’s pretty awesome, but then later another friend gave me the exact same ginormous mustache magnet and what’s a girl to do with 2 very, very large mustache magnets?  Well I decided to spread a little joy and maybe a good laugh with a stranger’s car in the Park-n-Ride parking lot.

#6  Restaurant gift card for a diner.  The day was a bit crazy and I was never able to make it to an actual restaurant, so I decided to give away a Subway card to a trick-or-treater’s parent.  Well here’s the problem…we only had 4 trick-or-treaters…and 3 of them were teenagers who were not dressed up.  Come on now.  The other one showed up without a parent.  So today I will be finding a recipient for some yummy Subway.

Here’s my list for today.  Got to get my kindness on.

And how about a little Halloween wee Kelley drama.  We waited until today to buy and carve our pumpkin.  This was not our plan, but life has just been crazy.  So one pumpkin, three little artists.  What are 2 peace keeping parents to do?  Here was my solution.  I clearly wanted to get in on the face designing of our pumpkin too…I have no artsy shame…so I drew 2 eyes, a nose and mouth, folded them up and let everyone draw from a bowl what they would get to draw for our pumpkin.

And this was Harper’s reaction when she got the nose.  Her artistic heart was not okay with the nose…she had her heart set on the mouth, but when you pitch a fit in our house, you don’t get what you want.

I went in to give Amon his bottle while they cleaned out our pumpkin.  When I came out Harper had worked her sisterly magic on the boys.  They had all come to the agreement that Huddy would do both eyes, Sol would do the nose and Harper would do the mouth.  If they can work out an agreement on their own…if they can use their own little minds and words to peacefully solve a problem and everyone is okay with it, well, then I’m okay with it too.

She did do a really good mouth.

Then they all got dressed up and ready to hit some houses up for candy.  They were just too excited.  I loved their joy…and imaginations.  Pretty sure Huddy and Sol both really think they can be superheros when they grow up.  That’s pretty stellar.

I enjoyed hanging with Super Man all night.  He is really quite super.

And by far the funniest piece of Halloween candy I’ve ever seen.  It even came with fake vampire teeth…hysterical.

Hope everyone’s day was great.  And thank you for entering the giveaway.  I loved reading all the comments.  You guys rock.  Happy Thursday!